Sometimes I’ll get out there on the interwebs and notice it’s always the same people that complain about all of the same things over and over again. Whether it be fear induced by the modern faux news media, or another less than substantial political talking point, here they are, devolving into an ever increasing angst.

Seems that they often experience a particular problem multiple times over and wonder why we have to deal with it repeatedly. Our thoughts and feelings often create our reality and govern our lives. And sometimes they are what create problems for us.

Often, it seems, we develop such a strong negative focus that we end up attracting the same problem over and over and over again. So if you feel like you’ve been facing the same problem on a loop, think about what negative influence you are embracing intentionally or otherwise. If you are frequently facing similar problems there may be a particular behavior of yours at play.

Here are some common negative influencers that make you attract problems and even the same issues time after time.

Obsessively thinking about the problem

While worrying is an evolutionary trait that is critical for our survival, too much worrying is always a harmful thing. Worrying about our problems imprints those very issues into our brains and we soon find that we’re too deeply involved in the problem to be thinking of a solution.

My friends always seem to get after me because I might not express the same angst or worry that they’re expressing — They say that it appears to them that I don’t care. The fact of the matter here is that I do have many of the same concerns or cares that they have — I just don’t let the latest political flavor of the day rule the way I think and do things. I’m not defined by anything anybody might say about any so-called deal of the day on the internet.

I understand that controlling one’s thoughts is easier said than done, simply distracting yourself from having intentional thoughts about whatever the issue is at hand can make a world of difference in your overall handling of the situation.

For this, we can form a deliberate distraction.

For instance, one can always do something nice for someone, smile at a stranger, say hi, help someone out anonymously, and by anonymously I mean telling no one about it.

After a while of doing this sort of stuff, you’ll find that you can meet your greatly diminished angst with a bit more focus and tact.

You could call an old friend, watch a movie, or even practice an instrument you haven’t picked up in a while. As long as it helps you shift focus and create a happy distraction, practice it until you’re ready to think about things with a clear head and not ‘worry’ about it.

With enough practice, you will learn to create a distraction to the obsessive overthinking.

Acting out of fear

Our actions can affect our vibe and in turn, alter our beliefs. Our actions often mirror what’s brewing inside of us and reflect our vibe. This sort of thing can be handled by making small seemingly insignificant changes.

For instance, when we’re feeling low, simply putting on a smile can give a much needed positive emotional boost that can make us feel better overall.

Our moods and actions are often in tandem with each other, hence our actions mostly reflect how we’re feeling inside.

When we’re struggling with similar issues time and again, we tend to feel frustrated and wary about the problem repeating itself.

We start to tread with caution in fear of history repeating itself.

For instance, if you log into the internet, you might fear that you’ll get into and argument with a Trump or a Biden supporter.

You already know what you’re going to say and that might bother you a bit.

You might worry that you’re going to continue the cycle, because by now you just seem to know that your politics has already defined you.

You don’t have to be defined by the talking points of the day. You can just as easily express your concern over a matter and be done with it.

Spend the rest of your day on the net posting pictures of pretty flowers or something.

If you fear too much about what “might” happen, you are subconsciously sending a message to the universe that something is constantly on your mind and it ends up happening.

All over again.

Complaining or talking about the problem

One of the strongest reasons we tend to attract problems repeatedly is that we talk a lot about the problem and in turn, this creates a negative environment around us and attracts more and more negativity as time goes by.

Seems sometimes we just can’t even help it. It’s as if it’s almost addictive to share one’s issues just to vent or simply dump our worries on someone else.

Constantly complaining about always ending up with the wrong partner, being stuck in a boring job, or of how everyone hates your chosen lifestyle will get you accustomed to the habit of perennially complaining.

Over time, with each complaint, you add an ounce of negativity to your emotion box until one day it seems too full and it becomes your entirety — it becomes your negative state of being.

Your valid argument will become much less valid, and your credibility will become much less credible.

Soon, people might quit listening to you about things that might actually really make a difference.

The cycle that never changes, never will change, unless you make the conscious effort to change it.

Thanks for the read.

Happy Trails.

If among you, one of your brothers should become poor, in any of your towns within your land that the Lord your God is giving you, you shall not harden your heart or shut your hand against your poor brother, but you shall open your hand to him and lend him sufficient for his need, whatever it may be … For the poor you will always have with you in the land. Therefore I command you, ‘You shall open wide your hand to your brother, to the needy and to the poor, in your land.’ (Deuteronomy 15:7-11)

If your neighbor is suffering from hunger, mental health issues, lack of good shelter, and gainful employment, then it falls to us to do what we can to help him in these regards. We don’t have to be assholes about all of this — We all just need to do what we can, and according to our own means.

Though the homeless and indigent have always been with us, record keeping of the problem started back in the 1870’s and from that, the problems have become increasingly worse. The civil rights and civil liberties movements of the 60s accelerated the problem, and government policy accelerated the problem even more starting in the 80’s with gentrification of the inner city and the de-institutionalization of the mentally ill.

Our nation used to offer work to those who were homeless, and they accepted it. Then our nation offered welfare (free money) and the homeless accepted it. As it is now, our homeless are offered a free spot to pitch their tent and they accepted it.

It’s hard to believe just how far down the rabbit hole we’ve gone as a society over the past 150 years — Government policy supposedly designed to make things better has only served to make things worse. And the proof of my statement resides somewhere in downtown Great Falls, living in a tent.

I feel bad for kids today. With all their electronic gadgets, they’ll never know the simple joy of throwing rocks at each other.

The statement above might sound funny on it’s surface, but according to research conducted over the past 10 years or so, there’s actually something to this whole business of social isolation when it comes to the internet.

Smartphones have made a significant change to the way we live our lives, giving us access to information on the go and keeping us in touch wherever we are.

But the benefits they offer are only part of the story. An alarming new study from non-profit research organization Sapien Labs suggests that a decline in the mental health of younger generations has occurred alongside smartphone use and an increase in social isolation.

Understanding the Social Self

Social functioning is correlated with various aspects of mental and physical health (e.g., Cruwys et al., 2014; Holt-Lunstad et al., 2010; Kawachi & Berkman, 2001; Maher et al., 2017; Perkins et al., 2015; Segrin, 2019). More importantly, the ability to relate to and interact with others effectively has been crucial for human cooperation and the building of our modern world. The breakdown of this capability such that it is seriously impaired in over half of young adults across the world therefore has serious consequences for the future of society.

Social interaction involves a complex set of functions: reading facial expressions and body language to assess intent, learning to respond appropriately within social norms, regulating one’s emotions and more.

While the capacity for social behavior may be an innate human trait, as is the capacity for language, it requires practice to get to a place where we are confident in our ability to handle social situations of all kinds. It is also only through repeated interactions with others that we build the friendships and other relationships that establish our place in the social fabric. From feeling detached from reality to avoidance and withdrawal and suicidal thoughts, these symptoms represent the extreme of disconnection from or a failure to integrate into the social fabric.

The Internet and the Social Self

Why would the Social Self be in such decline? A big part of the answer is likely the Internet, which has seen a meteoric rise along with smart phones since 2010. Data now shows that around the world people spend 7 to 10 hours a day on the Internet.

This leaves little time for in-person social interaction with friends and family. Where once children spent several hours a day engaged in in-person social interaction, adding up to, in our estimation, 10,000 to 25,000 hours by the time they reached adulthood, for generations growing up in the Internet world that number is likely closer to 5,000 and for some, even as low as 1,500. The lack of sufficient social engagement may even have neurobiological consequences.

In rhesus macaque monkeys for instance, the size of specific brain structures increases with more direct affiliative social connections (Testard et al., 2022). There is also the distortion of social perceptions by the Internet where adolescents compare themselves to a virtual reality that does not match our physical reality. Furthermore, the virtual medium may not effectively engage the neurobiological systems designed for pro-social behavior. The human mirror neuron system, thought to support the learning and development of social behavior by enabling brain-brain dyads of observational learning and imitation may not function effectively, if at all, in the virtual environment (Dickerson et al., 2017). For example, adults demonstrate poor emotional fluency while using video-based communication systems compared to in-person behavior.

Several studies with adolescents and young adults have shown the amount of time spent on a digital device (i.e., screen time) is correlated with poorer social skills (e.g., Kelly et al., 2018; Twenge et al.,2018).

It might be important to not underestimate the magnitude and nature of the challenges of social isolation and digital interaction at the expense of in-person social interaction in the modern age of today’s electronic devices.

You can read the full report here: https://sapienlabs.org/publications/

The report shows this decline is consistent across 34 countries where data was acquired, and that over the pandemic, the mental well being of each younger age group of adults fell much more dramatically.

So, let’s look into what the pH means to our body.

So what is pH anyway?

We were taught this in our science class in school. The body maintains a acid-alkaline balance that has a lot of importance to the body. Everything from ocean life, cancer cells, healthy cells, and soil is affected by pH. The term pH means “potential hydrogen” which measures the amount of hydrogen ions in body tissues and fluids.

The pH scale measures how acidic or alkaline a substance is and ranges from 0 to 14. Seven is neutral. Below 7 becomes increasingly acidic, above 7 increasingly alkaline.

As with most health-related barometers, balance is everything. Proper pH varies throughout your body for many reasons. For example, your bowels and skin should be slightly acidic–this helps keep unfriendly bacteria away. Saliva is more alkaline. While your urine is normally more acidic, especially in the morning.

In addition, your body regularly deals with naturally occurring acids that are the by-products of respiration, metabolism, cellular breakdown, and exercise. So clearly the goal is not to think of acid as “bad” and alkaline “good”. Again, it’s a delicate balance.

By far the most important measurement is your blood.

For optimal cellular health, your blood pH must be slightly alkaline with a pH between 7.365 and 7.4. A basic understanding of how our bodies maintain an alkaline blood range is important for good health. Your body doesn’t just “find” the balance it works extremely hard to create it. When we make poor lifestyle choices or are burdened by a toxic, chemical rich environment, our bodies have to work harder to create homeostasis.

When there’s even the slightest chance that you could become overly acidic (due to food and lifestyle choices, environment, chemicals etc.) your body steals calcium, magnesium, and potassium from your bones, teeth, and organs to neutralize acids. This is okay once in a while, but over the long term it can lead to osteoporosis and other illnesses.

The Relationship Between pH & Your Health

Most people consume a diet packed of sugar, processed foods, factory farmed animal products, etc. The digestive system, liver, and kidneys take a big hit from the effects of a poor diet. Allergies, skin problems, constipation, inflammation, arthritis, bowel problems, stress (physical & mental) and chronic disease thrive in this. A high level of acidity can attract bad bacteria (like fungus and yeast) and viruses that have a damaging impact on our health.

Tilting the pH scale in the alkaline direction is easy with a diet filled with mineral-rich plant foods. Eating (leafy greens, wheatgrass, veggies, sprouts, avocados, green juices and smoothies) compared to an acidic diet (high in animal products, processed carbs, refined sugar, energy drinks, etc), we fill our bodies with vitamins, chlorophyll, minerals, and oxygen.

On the pH scale, Soda = 2. Coffee = 4. Carrot = 7. Get the picture? Burger, fries, diet cola, muffin, candy bar? Acidity.

Green drinks, salads, fruits, sprouts? Alkaline heaven!

Your goal is to make more energy deposits than withdrawals. Again, your goal is to consume more than you eliminate.

Testing Your pH

You may be tempted to start testing your pH constantly, however it’s really not needed at all. You can test your urine in the comfort of your home with litmus paper strips. Also, remember that urine pH can change from a variety of factors like what you eat and when. You should test your urine when you go for your second time, as this will give you a clearer picture of whats going on.

When you test your urine, you are able to look at the efficiency of your body ability to eliminate acids and minerals. For the best results, your urine should be around 6.8 to 7.5 pH.

Top 3 Ways to Support pH Balance

1. Start your day with a tall glass of lemon water and stay hydrated.

Lemons are naturally an acidic fruit, but when combined with water it forms more alkaline in the body. Your body cells need alkaline, so when you get up each morning have 2 cups of lukewarm water with some squeezed lemon.

You can purchase water ionizers that can alkalize your drinking water, yet they are expensive. Consuming this will eliminate acids, clean your digestive tract and improve metabolism. Its important that you stay hydrated as it helps in the process of detoxing your system, avoiding acid waste accumulation, and maintaining immune function.

2. Eat more raw foods and drink green juices and smoothies.

Consume more vegetables, leafy greens, some fruits, seaweed, wheatgrass, nuts, sprouts, some grains, green juice, and green smoothies. These all will give your body plenty of minerals, phytonutrients, chlorophyll, vitamins, and oxygen to help keep the body in an alkaline state.

Cancer cells, bacteria, viruses, and other microorganisms cannot stand or live in oxygen. They thrive inside an acidic environment from an acidic diet in refined and processed food, synthetic chemicals and animal products.

3. Exercise, manage stress, sleep better, and avoid nasty chemicals and cigs.

Our diet isn’t the only thing that can affect our pH levels. Lacking an active lifestyle, drug abuse, cigarettes, anger and stress can trigger acidity in the body leading to inflammation. This “play hard, work hard” and “deal with it later” method in your daily life is negatively affecting your health. Its found that emotional stress lets out cortisol and adrenaline (acid forming hormones) that fill the system up and taint soil.

You can improve cellular health by taking more naps, yoga, meditation, breathing exercises, nature walks, stress management counseling and eliminating what weighs you down in your life.

Alkaline vs. Acidic Foods

If you want to know if the food your about to eat is acidic or alkaline, and how much? You can incinerate a part of the food to test the mineral content in the ash. Some experts and and lab results disagree, which makes the websites and books that give out acidic and alkaline food chats follow suit.

Most disagreements are minor in nature, while there are a few bigger disagreements. If the ash has a high alkaline content, the food will have alkaline effects on the body. Whether a food is mildly alkalizing or mildly acidifying, it doesn’t really matter.

There will be different shades of gray, but what is far more imperative is being aware of whats more acidic and inflammatory, to make better eating decisions.

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